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Keep First Dates Short and Sweet

Tiffany Antoci Season 1 Episode 103

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Another piece of advice I have on dating is this: keep the first few dates short. You’re busy, you’ve got a life, and you don’t need to spend an entire day or night with someone you just met—no matter how fun or exciting it feels.


Set a time boundary: two and a half to three hours max. That’s plenty for dinner and maybe a movie. It keeps the energy light, leaves him wanting more, and allows the relationship to grow at a gradual pace without giving too much too soon.


Here’s why it works: long dates can actually backfire. They leave room for boredom, awkward lulls, or even turning someone off. But a shorter date keeps things fresh, fun, and unfinished—so he’s looking forward to the next time.


And one more non-negotiable: you do not go back to his place, and he doesn’t come back to yours. Protect your boundaries and let the connection unfold naturally.


Remember: mystery is magnetic, and pacing is powerful.

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